At first I was very determined to find out the gender of our baby when we could find out. Then after talking to a few friends who did not find out their baby's gender...we figured we would wait too and be surprised. Now I think we are swinging the other direction again and wanting to find out the gender.
I don't know which would be better...?
Some people argue that knowing is better because you get to plan so much more than not knowing. And if you know me well, I am a planner and like to be organized. But at the same time this maybe the last surprise we could ever have to wait for.
Yes, in a way, we will have waited 5 or so months before we can find out and it can be a surprise...but it is not the norm to go the full 9 months without finding out. Again, if you know me well, you know I like to be different than the rest at times.
Needless to say we are still debating whether to find out or not...we have about a month (I think) before we can find out. And just trying to decide what to decide is taking a toll.
So do I want to plan it all out knowing the gender and be the norm, or do I want to go against the norm and not have as much prepared as we could if we did know?
(as I typed that out and read it a few time over, I think I might have made up my mind)
I just don't want every decision that involves this child to be this tough but I also realize that they all won't be cake walk decisions.
I want a cake walk kid.
And if the baby smelled like cake that would be good too.
oh Wishful Thinking, I can tell that we are gonna be friends.